I will miss talking to sweet Bobbie Vandalia, who could inspire anyone to action.
Her telephone calls always were enthusiastic about the next event she was planning, whether a Halloween party for children outside her church, a World AIDS Day program/update on the area’s AIDS quilt or the annual, free Christmas dinner at College Avenue Presbyterian Church.
Our talks went back to the mid-1990s, when she still was operating Golden Shears Hair Studio in Alton, apparently chatting as she removed hair rollers or combed out a client’s hairdo. She didn’t mind if I called her at work, the important thing was to get out the message.
I always was happy to put a plug in the paper about her need for volunteers, big cans of vegetables or pie donations or a notice about an upcoming event.
She always got good responses to her calls for donations and helpers — eventually — sometimes coming down to the last days.
Bobbie, 67, died unexpectedly Monday night at her home of a massive heart attack after years of having various health problems.
I had heard shortly before Christmas that her health was deteriorating further. I had meant to send her another card.
Last month, for the second time she could not attend the free community dinner she and husband Bob organized for 15 years. The couple and their loyal volunteers still were able to feed dozens of people at the church and by home delivery. Bobbie had done her part in absentia for this last Christmas dinner she would plan, never leaving the work to others.
Bob said Tuesday that she had been “petrified” of having to go to a nursing home or hospital.
Instead, she slipped away in her own home with her husband of 43 years at her side.
While the dinners the Vandalias held are fresh in the community’s minds, we can’t forget she boldly stood with the church’s now retired pastor, the Rev. George Humbert. He and the Vandalias helped and comforted people with HIV/AIDS, raised awareness of the disease and how to prevent getting the virus that causes it, held World AIDS Day programs and started a Madison County AIDS memorial quilt.
Those activities were not popular with some people in the church and community, but no one would stop Bobbie from her mission to help others. It definitely took courage back then.
I would welcome anyone to share with me his or her memories of Bobbie to attach to this blog.
I’ll miss you, Bobbie!






