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Bye, Bobbie…

January 18th, 2012, 8:50 am by

I will miss talking to sweet Bobbie Vandalia, who could inspire anyone to action.

Her telephone calls always were enthusiastic about the next event she was planning, whether a Halloween party for children outside her church, a World AIDS Day program/update on the area’s AIDS quilt or the annual, free Christmas dinner at College Avenue Presbyterian Church.

Our talks went back to the mid-1990s, when she still was operating Golden Shears Hair Studio in Alton, apparently chatting as she removed hair rollers or combed out a client’s hairdo. She didn’t mind if I called her at work, the important thing was to get out the message.

I always was happy to put a plug in the paper about her need for volunteers, big cans of vegetables or pie donations or a notice about an upcoming event.

She always got good responses to her calls for donations and helpers — eventually — sometimes coming down to the last days.

Bobbie, 67, died unexpectedly Monday night at her home of a massive heart attack after years of having various health problems.

I had heard shortly before Christmas that her health was deteriorating further. I had meant to send her another card.

Last month, for the second time she could not attend the free community dinner she and husband Bob organized for 15 years. The couple and their loyal volunteers still were able to feed dozens of people at the church and by home delivery. Bobbie had done her part in absentia for this last Christmas dinner she would plan, never leaving the work to others.

Bob said Tuesday that she had been “petrified” of having to go to a nursing home or hospital.

Instead, she slipped away in her own home with her husband of 43 years at her side.

While the dinners the Vandalias held are fresh in the community’s minds, we can’t forget she boldly stood with the church’s now retired pastor, the Rev. George Humbert. He and the Vandalias helped and comforted people with HIV/AIDS, raised awareness of the disease and how to prevent getting the virus that causes it, held World AIDS Day programs and started a Madison County AIDS memorial quilt.

Those activities were not popular with some people in the church and community, but no one would stop Bobbie from her mission to help others. It definitely took courage back then.

I would welcome anyone to share with me his or her memories of Bobbie to attach to this blog.

I’ll miss you, Bobbie!

A truly giving man from Michigan…

November 27th, 2011, 12:10 pm by

An American Horse, Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park & Linda Weller

I’m sure if most people in The Telegraph area noticed online or elsewhere that Frederik Meijer of Michigan died last Friday, most would not know who this man was or have any inkling of the extent of his “giving back.”

A year ago I wouldn’t have known, either.

Last May, though, I visited the 132-acre, Frederik Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park in Grand Rapids, Mich., probably the most remarkable example of which the late, super-center store owner established for his enjoyment and that of the public. Either the impressive sculptures placed about the grounds, or the outdoor and indoor gardens, could stand as independent attractions. They are on par with – or even more impressive than – Missouri Botanical Gardens (depending on an individual’s interests or means of evaluation). The gardens are in no way set up as monuments or shrines to Meijer.

The enclosed botanic gardens have temporary attractions, such as visiting colorful butterflies in the indoor tropical area when we were there. There is attention to educating visitors and preserving the environment in the living displays.

I enjoyed the indoor desert with its carnivorous plants; there is an interactive children’s play area and an old “farm,” that attracted school groups. The sculptures throughout appeal to all tastes, from modern to classical., some in tiny individual gardens or enhanced with water. Among the most striking is a gigantic black metal horse.

Mr. Meijer, who had no stores in the St. Louis area, was 91 when he died. An older man visiting the garden last May tried to joke with a docent, asking if Fred was around that day. Instead of laughing him off, the woman responded that Mr. Meijer frequently came by for a visit but could not say when he would be back.

When I left the gardens, I remarked how wonderful it would be to have so much money to create such a large, beautiful gift to the public. At that time I did not know the son of a Dutch immigrant also donated land for a college campus and later paid for its new PBS station that carries his last name; he donated a section of the Berlin Wall that is on display in the Gerald R. Ford Museum in Grand Rapids; $1 million to a Michigan state park; and a large amount of money to renovate an old theater in Grand Rapids.
He also established a college chair for the study of Dutch language and culture.

I’m sure he probably donated untold amounts of money elsewhere, as well, which is what philanthropists do. I hope Mr. Meijer got back a fraction of the enjoyment other people have experienced from his gifts that enhanced quality of life and education in that part of Michigan. He obviously understood, “You can’t take it with you.”

www.meijergardens.org

Password perils, from letmein to trustno1…

November 21st, 2011, 4:43 pm by

A list just came out of the worst, most often hacked passwords people should not use on their computers. If anyone remembers, I wrote a blog earlier this year about how I was suffering from password overload . I have so many email, company, insurance and online retail accounts with different (albeit similar, in most of them) passwords that I had to make lists. Of course, some sites require me to change them every few months, adding to my aggravation.

So, password management app maker SplashData comes out with its list of no-no passwords for 2011, some of which I thought were not so bad. Apparently enough users liked the top 25, but the hackers. got wise to them. I particularly liked “letmein,” which I thought was clever and runs through every computer user’s mind when signing in, especially if it’s going slowly. Not to be, though. Hackable. “Trustno1″ is on the list, so I guess it also was easy to figure out. I wouldn’t have guessed either of them.

People who use 12345…or ABCD or qwerty (letters in order on the top, left row of a keyboard) or their first names or birthdates are asking for trouble, I knew that much.

But why did so many people use “monkey,” “dragon,” “master” or “sunshine?” Baseball and football are easy to understand, especially if someone is setting up an account during one of the sports seasons. I guess there are a lot guys named Michael or girls named Ashley – or people who love Michaels or Ashleys. Either reason would explain why those passwords were hacked frequently. I’m sure popculture “vampire” and “zombie” are part of a lot of logins, and probably celebrity names. (Kardashian, anyone?)

People are supposed to come up with passwords that are strong, meaning unique (and probably hard to remember), with a mixture of letters, numbers and symbols to prevent someone from getting into bank accounts or committing other identity theft, fraud or thievery. Even if the account doesn’t force or prompt it, computer users are supposed to change their passwords a couple times a year. Great.

I would think some of these combinations might make good passwords, and maybe people are using some of them (add your own numbers and symbols to personalize): Pizzayum, needabeer, lovemycat, wannabe@thebeach, IwishitwasFriday, PleaseBFriday, NotanotherMonday, junkycomputer, workin4theweekend, thebossisxxxxxxxx or quittingtimeyet?

What are some favorite passwords you USED to use (keep it clean)?

SlashData’s 25 worst passwords of the year :
1. password 14. master
2. 123456 15. sunshine
3. 12345678 16. ashley
4. qwerty 17. bailey
5. abc123 18. passw0rd
6. monkey 19. shadow
7. 1234567 20. 123123
8. letmein 21. 654321
9. trustno1 22. superman
10. dragon 23. qazwsx
11. baseball 24. michael
12. 111111 25. football
13. iloveyou

Learn about a deadly drug Wednesday night…

November 15th, 2011, 7:40 pm by

People who are just starting to hear about the growing use of heroin in the St. Louis area, including Madison County, might want to learn more Wednesday night (Nov. 16) – especially if they are parents.

The Project Alert Drug Forum will begin at 7 p.m. in the Alton High Commons, 4200 Humbert Road in Godfrey.

Those who attend will learn about symptoms of heroin use, how it is ingested and hear first-hand the story of a woman’s struggle with the sometimes, fatal drug. A movie about the death of an East Alton man from a heroin overdose also will be shown to further hit home the evils of the drug, which is much stronger than it was in decades past.

I am sure attendees will hear the latest count of deaths – or suspected deaths this year – from heroin in Madison County during the town hall forum. The forum will be similar to a program held last month at Edwardsville High.

I plan to cover the event for The Telegraph, and I’m sure I’ll learn something new. The first anti-drug education I ever got in school was about heroin, in the 1960s. I remember seeing a disturbing film of a man writhing and flailing about on the floor of a jail cell in agony as he withdrew from the drug. Between seeing his pain, hearing his moans and yells and personally hating hypodermic needles, I didn’t understand the attraction to the drug.

There also will be information on synthetic drugs such as K-2 and bath salts at the forum, which contain new substances about which parents might know little or nothing. Those also can be fatal.

While the free program is aimed at adults, parents are welcome to bring their children, if they deem the presentation content appropriate.

Chief David Hayes of the Alton Police Department organized the program in conjunction with APD and Alton School District’s Drug Free Alton and Project Alert.

A number of local officials will be on hand to speak or answer questions: Hayes, Madison County Sheriff Robert Hertz, State’s Attorney Tom Gibbons and Coroner Steve Nonn; U.S. Attorney Stephen Wigginton of the Southern District of Illinois; school resource officers Pfc. Dustin Christner and Pfc. Mike O’Neill of APD; Dawn Hirsch-Gregorio of WellSpring Resources of Alton; and Ken Spells, superintendent of the Alton School District.

Emcee will be Steve Jankowski, director of alumni activities at Southern Illinois University Edwardsville. Jankowski and SIUE mass communications students made the graphic, heart-wrenching video, as well as one aimed at students.

I’d say it’s worth investing the time to hear about this resurgence of heroin use and the synthetic drugs. It’s never wrong to be informed. The program organizers should be commended for their efforts to educate the public on these substances.

Reebok, Reebok …

September 29th, 2011, 8:55 am by

Usually I follow the adage that if something sounds too good to be true, it probably isn’t. But last year, several women at the exercise club I frequent had high praise for two brands of athletic shoes that advertised a “bonus” workout to the thighs and buttocks by just wearing their products.

The television ads were enticing, too, showing fit, muscular women in tight workout wear getting that extra boost while working out or walking, simply from the shoe design.

One of the companies, Reebok, claimed someone wearing its EasyTone shoes could strengthen her calves up to 11 percent – or her buttocks by 28 percent – more than regular athletic shoes simply by walking.

At that time, my athletic shoes were wearing out, complete with holes in their backs. Naturally, I checked out the super shoes when they went on sale at a local store, the others being Sketchers.

Why not go for the extra workout? Women online were swearing by it, too, saying their leg muscles were more tight after walking or working out, apparently an indication that the shoes were pulling on something.

Plain old Reeboks have been my favorites for decades, so I gravitated toward them first. The saleslady recommended the Sketchers, but I didn’t care for the curved sole. I felt unsteady, as though I might continue that back-to-front action all the way to the ground.

So Reebok EasyTone it was.

Anyway, several months after I bought the special, pink-accented breast cancer awareness EasyTone, I began reading that the company’s advertising claims were overstated. In fact, the ads allegedly were overstated to the extent that it led to a lawsuit and just-announced, $25 million settlement. http://www.ftc.gov/opa/2011/09/reebok.shtm

As a result, purchasers of several, specific Reebok products on or after Dec. 5, 2008, can file a rebate claim online. What they may receive is unknown at this point, as there are several variables.

The form is available at: https://cert.gardencitygroup.com/rbk/fs/ftc-1

Despite the settlement, the company stands by its products, putting out the statement:
“On September 28, 2011, the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) announced that Reebok and the FTC have come to a settlement agreement on the FTC’s allegations regarding the U.S. EasyTone advertising campaign. The allegations suggested that the testing we conducted did not substantiate certain claims used in the advertising of our EasyTone line of products. In order to avoid a protracted legal battle, Reebok has chosen to settle with the FTC. Settling does not mean we agreed with the FTC’s allegations; we do not. (my emphasis).

“We fully stand behind our EasyTone technology – the first shoe in the toning category inspired by balance-ball training. We have received overwhelmingly enthusiastic feedback from thousands of EasyTone customers, and we remain committed to the continued development of our EasyTone line of products. Our customers are our number one priority, and we will continue to deliver products that they trust and love.” http://corporate.reebok.com/en/about_reebok/FTC%20Easytone.asp

I can’t say anything bad about my shoes, I like them.

They have been comfortable as I exercised, and walked all through my neighborhood, the hard sidewalks of Chicago, trails in the Great Smoky Mountains and other places. I plan to take them on my next trip, which will involve a lot of walking.

I would buy the shoes again if my current pair ever wears out. I have a bad foot so not every shoe works for me.

But remembering those ads…. I’m still waiting for my 11 percent and 28 percent results. I want to look like the women in the commercials.

If they said it on TV, it must be true, right?

Helpful Hint: Put down those cellphones if you are near a school…

August 16th, 2011, 3:27 pm by

I can remember how hectic it was the first few days of school each year, so I’m doing you parents and grandparents a favor here in hopes of saving you a $120 fine:

Put down your cell phones in a school zone!

Talking on them is unsafe and illegal in school zones in Illinois. As they did last year, Alton police outright say they plan to zero in on enforcing the laws in those zones starting Wednesday, the first day of school in the district.

The first new school year that the state law was in effect was 2010. City police consequently issued dozens of tickets to motorists in just the first three months, continuing through the school year. Just from mid-August through Nov. 22, 2010, Alton police issued 115 such tickets before posting 25 warning signs in November.

Many of the people, I’m sure, were parents and grandparents dropping off the kids at the schools. Many recipients told police they were unaware of the new law. Others said they forgot about the law in their automatic response to pick up the phone when a son or daughter called, a police officer told me.

One person called The Telegraph last year after receiving a ticket to complain that she was holding her phone, but not talking on it. I don’t know how she expected to prove that, or what we should do about it. If you look like you’re talking on the phone, or just listening to someone talking, you too may get a ticket.

As part of my reminder, Alton drivers should know that the technically vacated Horace Mann and Mark Twain buildings – 2708 Edwards St. and 907 Milton Road, respectively – once again are being used to house students so the “school zone” is in effect at those places.

With extensive renovations going on at East Elementary, 1035 Washington Ave., its student body is being split between the two locations. Therefore, you may see police officers near Horace Mann and Mark Twain, as well as the other schools, in the weekday drop-off and pickup hours.

The special police enforcement also will include looking for speeders in school zones and those violating seat belt and child restraint laws.

Need I mention texting and driving?

Everyone with a drivers license should know it is illegal in Illinois to be texting and driving, regardless of whether you are driving in a school zone or not. I know some people can do it sneakily, but if you don’t crash first, you could get a ticket.

Just from my observations, some people still don’t know that or care. I saw two women texting while driving (in one case coasting, since she didn’t have any hands on the wheel) just last week on busy roads.

The first one was on Landmarks by Henry Street, not a great place for distracted drivers.

The other one – I’m talking to you, lady in the white GM mini-van at about 5 p.m. Wednesday westbound in front of the Wood River Shop ‘n Save and the car dealerships on Rte. 143. She also was chatting to another woman at the same time she was pecking out her message.

I was trying to figure out a good hand signal to convey, “Put it down!” but then she was too preoccupied to see me driving alongside her. She was too preoccupied to see any other cars, I’m sure.

Was I supposed to dig my phone out of my purse and call police – risking me crashing my car – to report her poor driving?

I thought it best to escape, and I scooted away.

Now that is when I really would like to see someone get a ticket.

Be careful out there with all those kids around the schools.

Kiddies, get out the crayons and get busy!

August 3rd, 2011, 3:12 pm by

I know parents and other child-tenders probably are weary of being cooped up with the little and middle-sized ones in this intense heat that continues on and on and on.

School won’t start for a couple weeks, and it’s an effort to keep the youngsters occupied so they don’t utter the fateful words, “I’m bored.” (That simple complaint, emphasized with a sigh or whine, always prompted my mother to find some work for me to do so I stopped informing her of my ennui).

Back to the topic.

I have one solution: Get out the crayons, colored pencils or markers and have the youngsters get busy drawing weather pictures for The Telegraph. If their artwork is chosen – and one picture runs every day at the bottom of the front page of the paper so there’s a good chance of that – they will achieve local fame and pride in their creativity.

It also might spur them on to drawing more weather pictures!

Although the pictures are small, they certainly are worthy of posting on the refrigerator, pasted in a scrapbook and for sending a copy to Grandma and Grandpa. A second activity for the young artiste (artiste on purpose) might be coming up with the best way to display said published masterpiece.

There is a second reason I am blogging on this:

The person who carefully selects the daily weather art is running mightily short of colored pictures. She specifically would like some partly cloudy drawings since that is the most common forecast. She already has plenty of snow, tornado and extreme, tumultuous weather drawings, so hold back on those.

(Actually, the snow pictures would look good to me right now!)

Key to getting the pictures published is following instructions, just like in school:

* Drawings need to be in color on 5.5 x 8.5-inch white sheets of paper. The easiest way to get the right size is to take an 8.5 x 11-inch sheet and cut it in half, then draw horizontally. Use lots of color, draw big and take up the whole space, as these are printed very small (roughly one-fourth of the original). It might be helpful to work with the child in coming up with a rough sketch on the other half of the paper, if needed, before starting the drawing.

* Please print clearly on the back the child’s full name, grade and school and the forecast the picture is meant to depict. Mark envelopes with “Weather Drawings.” Drawings can be mailed or dropped off at :

The Telegraph, 111 E. Broadway, Alton IL 62002

Take your children to Riverfront Park on Monday night…

July 29th, 2011, 10:53 am by

This year’s Alton kickoff to National Night Out to fight crime will be held at Riverfront Park amphitheater for the first time Monday.

I really like the change from the police station parking lot. The larger grounds at the park give room for youngsters to run about. Not being on a black asphalt parking lot also should be cooler (along with the tempting fountains that spring up from the patio!)

As usual, there will be free food, music, prizes, demonstrations of fire and police equipment and giveaways.
Last year it also was hot as ever, but the youngsters had fun watching the Alton Police Department’s new canine perform; seeing a firetruck aerial tower (despite firefighters running out of the free red plastic hats!); picking up safety information and trinkets and enjoying free hot dogs, chips and drinks.

A new treat this year will be showing of the classic movie, “Stand By Me” at dusk, so bring a blanket or lawn chairs, and popcorn if you so desire.

If it rains, the kickoff will be held at Gordon Moore Park.

I have had fun covering this event over the years, and I plan to be there Monday. Just watching the excited children is fun! Consider bringing the family down there – the kids probably need to get out of the house and just do something outside in the evening to run off their energy.

They also might learn about keeping safe from drugs, crime, fires and other dangers.

For those who aren’t familiar with the tradition, the actual 28th National Night Out is Tuesday, when neighborhoods hold anti-drug and crime prevention events; show support for local anti-crime programs; strengthen police-community partnerships and neighborhood spirit; and to show that neighborhoods are organized and fighting back against crime and drugs.

More than 15,000 communities throughout the United States, its territories, military bases and in Canada held activities on the 2010 National Night Out that involved 37 million participants, the Web site says. Among those events were block parties, flashlight walks, cookouts, parades and exhibits.

The National Association of Town Watch initiated the yearly observance and is the national sponsor,

http://www.nationalnightout.org.

For years, Alton has held a kick-off the night before so city neighborhoods can take it from there.
Sponsors of the 2011 Alton National Night Out Kickoff are Dave Mungenast Alton Toyota Scion, Saint Anthony’s Health Center and Alton Memorial Hospital, City of Alton and its police and fire departments, Target and Kraft Foods, Drug Free Alton, Alton Weed and Seed Strategy neighborhood problem solving group members, Robert Chick Fritz Inc. distributing, Alton Park and Recreation Department and the Alton Public Works Department.

It’s great so many businesses want to help and contribute to this enjoyable effort.

Bye, Betty, you were refreshing…

July 10th, 2011, 4:33 pm by

When I learned of First Lady Betty Ford dying, I realized we hadn’t heard anything about her or her children in a long time. Celebrity media likes the “new,” the young, beautiful and rich or the sensational (Casey Anthony).

Mrs. Ford only was First Lady for a short time, two years and five months. Still, she was in the news a lot with her forthright comments in television interviews and out on the street during demonstrations, particularly for the Equal Rights Amendment. She was a few years older than my mother, but my mom never would have come out publicly for a political cause. Mrs. Ford also was forthright about her struggle with breast cancer, her mastectomy and then, dependence on pain killers and alcohol.

I remember thinking how “normal” the Ford family seemed, with children of my age group, but their mom was cool. She was an updated June Cleaver, always looking perfect, classy, calm and a beloved mom. I liked her even though I was enraged that her husband pardoned his predecessor, “I am not a crook” President Richard Nixon.

Anyway, a lot of people are saying the same things as me about Mrs. Ford. That is good because those who weren’t born then or weren’t old enough to pay attention probably otherwise only would know about the famous clinic she founded. It gets media coverage when a celebrity goes there for drug or alcohol dependency rehab, at times referred to jokingly.

She was much more than that. Besides being refreshing and unfettered by her husband’s political stances, I think she and some others in her age group helped tie generations of women together. Generations still were split over the Vietnam War (and the 1960’s!); mothers working in the home vs. outside the home; the ERA; equal pay for equal work; and birth control, among others. It was easy to make assumptions on women’s stances based on their ages, which was not fair, but it happened.

While commentators are lauding Mrs. Ford for her candor decades ago, it still would be a rarity today. Moving forward by more than 30 years, in 21st century’s vicious national media world – particularly via the Internet – it would be hard for any first lady to be blunt and honest over issues of importance.

As example, look at the negativity thrust at First Lady Michelle Obama and her crusade for healthy diets and fitness for children? And her White House garden? Even those are generating hateful comments. Can you imagine her commenting on her children’s dating or trying marijuana as Mrs. Ford did?

I’m sure Betty fed her children well. If someone would have taken her to task for promoting good health for all American youngsters, I’m sure she would have been surprised. But she would have had a response. With the meanness and more means of expressing anonymous hostility out there in today’s world, though, don’t look for any first ladies discussing personal issues or problems anytime soon.

It’s not the ‘70s anymore.

Tweeting with Pat…

June 30th, 2011, 1:53 pm by

I am relatively new to Twitter, having been required to sign up through work, but I guess this luddite beat Illinois Gov. Pat Quinn to this new way of communicating with all who will “follow.”

Quinn’s office announced today that he now has a Twitter account, so I decided to sign up as a “follower,” which means I will get messages he allegedly “tweets” himself.

It does not mean I support him politically or that I am a follower in any other sense.

That’s just what Twitter calls it.

The first time I heard someone describe having dozens of “followers,” it made me uncomfortable. I thought it would be better to call such people “subscribers,” or message “recipients.”

Using the term “followers” made me think of the throngs crazily following “Tommy” in The Who’s album/musical/movie, or those succumbing to charms of the well-known revivalist preacher Marjoe Gortner. (He gained more notoriety in the 1970’s movie that carries his first name).

Once into this new-fangled messaging I learned some people use it to gauge their popularity – having “followers” enforces that feeling of importance (ego). I also learned media folks like to follow others in the industry so they can learn what stories we are working on and thereby get news tips.

Fortunately, each tweet is limited to 140 characters, but the list of messages gets long if you follow a lot of people.

Anyway, I guess we’ll see how the governor does, and what he has to say with this new Twitter account.

To save you some time, his first tweet was: “Excited to launch twitter to better communicate w/ people of IL. Looking forward to getting your feedback and ideas!”

At 9:45 a.m. today, Quinn already had gotten 626 followers, including myself, which jumped to 733 by 3 p.m., and 762 by 4:30 p.m. as word got out through the media. Early on, he got a tweet from fellow Democrat, U.S. Sen. Dick Durbin, welcoming him to Twitter.

Quinn responded, “Thank you, happy to be here!” He said he was attending a conference about creating high-tech jobs in the state and gotten a job creation award.

Quinn’s new Twitter account comes on the same day that a $1,000 fine was levied against one of his former top staffers for doing political work on state time and state computers during the 2010 campaign.

It will be interesting to see how election ethics officials regard Tweeting in future election years. They may need to decide whether it is “campaigning” to brag about awards and accomplishments, and how far to go in determining whether computers or smart phones used to transmit those messages were privately owned or state-owned.

Obviously, politicians and business people use this immediate communications medium to bolster themselves, their products or otherwise make money or get elected or re-elected. Others like to think people care about where they had lunch, went shopping, traveled on their vacation or their kvetches about their jobs or people who annoy them.

I usually tweet about events I am covering or mention a story I will have in the next day’s edition of The Telegraph. Once in awhile I can’t resist a more personal message or observation, but my tweets mostly are work-related.

Oh – I think it’s time for me to check back and see what #Pat’s up to now (http://twitter.com/#%21/GovernorQuinn), and see if he’s become one of MY followers.

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